The groom has his own role to play in planning out his big day, there is plenty of responsibilities that you bride-to-be is burdened with in getting involved in actively preparing for the wedding is always a helping hand that is welcomed. We’ve put together a guide that will give you a better explanation on the role of being a groom.
Working together with your fiance in planning the three most important things to do at the initial stages of planning involves the guest list, the ceremony and reception venues and the date of the wedding. Any help that you could give your fiance manage this will help you save plenty of money and also help her in organising efficiently.
Voicing your preferences
there is so much to put together before the big day arrives, it’s your big day too, you could take charge on a few things that interest you. Organising the food menu and tasting with the caterers or even the music playlists that you would want the band or DJ playing, or perhaps even the props of the venue.
Shopping for your gifts
common etiquette suggests that the groom by the best man a gift so the responsibility of picking one is yours. Sometimes we have grooms that also surprise brides with a gift to open on the next morning of the wedding.
Choosing the right outfits
discuss with your fiance well in advance on the outfit that you’re looking to purchase to stay aligned with the colour schemes chosen by her for the theme of the wedding. You would want your tie to be mismatched with the scheme, or if it is a semiformal wedding you would want your outfit being in completely different direction in comparison to hers.
Putting together your wedding registry
make the most out of carefully putting together the gift registry with your fiancé, these everyday items could be helpful and would be of need at your house, given the fact that someone else would be buying it for you makes it even more motivating to do so.
Give your fiance time-off preparing from the wedding
your fiance could be overloaded with the work of planning your wedding, stepping-in and getting to relax and de-stress by planning an evening out, a movie or even cooking her a meal will put a smile on her face.
Managing the groomsmen
ensuring that picked a bunch of friends that can be responsible in managing in a tasks can help you delegate the many jobs that need to be done on the day of the wedding. Communicate with them and share what is expected from them in advance.
Preparing for the first dance
it is your duty to lead the dancing set with your fiance for the first dance. Keep in mind that you have all eyes on you and it is a very special moment for your fiancé. Take dance classes required and also enlist a choreographer that will sequence the entire routine for you.
this is a mushy the trip that your fiance looks forward to, putting everything together is a fun to do activity and would be far less thing to do for your fiance. Get an idea in advance of what her likes and dislikes are and accordingly plan and itinerary and destination.